Do you think that ual desire is rebounding from years of repression?

okay, you can answer this yourself with masturbation. When your going threw puberty, when you reach that age when you want to procreate, then maybe you will understand this question. I think what you learn and experience based on these urges will teach you a lot on who you are and what you want. If you think about this, your upbringing and life experiences will come into play. Over all it's a big question that is based on the individual. There is no one answer that isn't universal, with the belief that emotions are complex thought process's that you can change with thinking.